1-23-13

I have been thinking about promises today and what makes us break those promises.  It's fear and not knowing your self.  Being able to be intimate with another is a scary thing because we often need their validation.  But to be able to hold on to yourself and be intimate regardless of the reaction of another is true love.  Only few find this.  So when you vow, (a solemn promise one by which a person is bound to an act, service, or condition) to do something like marriage, be ready to experience the best and worse of all worlds. 

Like this quote from the movie, "The Vow".

I had someone recently tell me that he regrets divorcing his wife of 20 plus years.. and when I asked him what happened, he said that he changed and basically lost his way back.  To find a way back has got to be the greatest treasure of love and a marriage!